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Archives آرشیو

This blog is the archive of my old blog - I am recently publishing articles in English translation

Custom-experience12/6

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Another lawful prostitution: In this case you have to think carefully about the subject

Look, because there is nothing to do with prejudice. depravity

The lawman, also found in Iran in abundance, is a temporary contract or a concubine

Poisonous propaganda about this must be avoided. This relationship at least

Against a commitment of time and with the consent of both parties and the woman to

This communication satisfies that brief and somewhat brief ceremony

Maintains the human and moral values ​​of both parties. Pay attention to me

 I called both cases prostitution, though maybe with a little discount

And to say bigotry is not the ugly second way the first way

Disagreeing with and accepting a large part of society. Opposition to prostitution

It should be more pressing on the illegal way than at least

Legally establish relationships between men and women (now religious)

The issues and cases of such marriages do not end with these assumptions

And a lot of it. That's enough to remember in the general context of the articles.

Traditional methods and tribal habits:

After elaborating on social life, it is necessary to consider the role of methods

About tribal relations between men and women,

During the millennia, tribes and tribes had unwritten rules

It came to pass that all the tribesmen found themselves obliged to obey it. Most importantly

These habits were in line with the tribal rules on marriage. In most tribes

Family and domestic marriage were common. And suppose Uncle's daughter. Uncle's son together

They were getting married. And love between the two, or naturally

There was or was no interest at all, no matter what.

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Providing a future for herself and her children, for Iranian women

And widows who do not get paid. in this

They are very upset and compelled, about men

That's likely. Marry them and the shadow of the head and guardian

Children become. They are very eager. For that reason, about marriage

The widow of men and widows, the subject of wealth and wealth

it's too important. But in these types of marriages, there are problems

There is. Which almost none of the parties pay attention to.

The first problem is due to the existence of male offspring. That of marriage

The first is left. The kids don't accept the new wife

And according to an old custom, she is known as Baba's wife. That's the word itself

It has a lot of negative charge. Another major problem is the female offspring

Female children never look at their husbands in the eyes of acceptance.

And their mothers, absolutely, in their behavior and even the sharing of food

It doesn't do justice. Again, this is fueled by differences.

Another important issue is the coldness of middle-aged man. That naturally cannot

Meet the needs of a relatively young woman. And that's it soon

There are many dangers to such a family

Threatens, threatens. These problems are so unpleasant and difficult. That fast

The parties forget. What was the purpose of their marriage? But madam

In such cases, consultations are held, and pre-marriage, supplies

And it has a lot of assurances from the man, upstairs. And man coming soon

She finds out, if it hurts if she divorces

 And the damage will be. So with changes in your life and behaviors

Normally, it does a lot of things.

 And often, he kills his own children in a nutshell

A woman's captivity remains for the rest of her life or the end of her life. Of course,

Women's dissatisfaction in these types of lives is no less than that of men. But

He is happy. That the material life of himself and his children

Supply, is. And not too bad for him. In my opinion,

Second marriage is not a pleasant and righteous job for widows.

But on the other hand, loneliness, if you don't get married,

Waiting for such a man.

On the other hand, it sometimes happens that an ordinary widow has one

Ordinary widows get married. And good times, too

And they even bring in new children

Marriages, sacrifices, and sacrifice for the woman, come to me very much.

Another possibility in such marriages is that the woman,

It doesn't guarantee much of a man, and incidentally, the man dies.

If so, the children may have died

No right to get out of the house

Prostitution is not in societies

The community is huge and I mention a few of these factors

But I think there are two aspects to this

He looked different, a cruel, illegal prostitution

In this way, all human values ​​on both sides were destroyed.

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Natural Need:

A man or a woman, from adulthood. On

 The effect of different glandular activity, the appearance of change and the change

 Apparently, there are many changes in their spirit as well

comes. One of these changes is the desire for the opposite sex. That usually

It takes the place of initial curiosity in one's mind. This tendency depends

Physiology and how to train and educate and live with friends,

It has very significant strength and weakness

Homogeneity of beliefs and beliefs:

There is a need, or a natural desire, in the soul and body of the person.

It may reach the opposite sex. In some respects

(No matter what aspect) he behaves or thinks like him

He feels that there are commonalities between them.

At this point, both sides will try. To strengthen the points

Sharing and showing it, in the opposite way, to each other as much as possible

The closeness is likely to lead to love

In my opinion, loving this relationship will last longer

Compared to other communications it can.

life conditions:

In some cases, two people live in identical conditions

And maybe they don't have the ambition. And by understanding equal terms

They come together. This kind of connection is more between two people who

Together, they are relatives, or citizens, or peasants. Exist

comes. In lesser cities, there is a similarity in life.

And the ambition of both sides does not allow. They have this kind of homology

To be considered important.

The effect of hormones:

as you know. Sex hormones secretion, mood

It makes the boy and the girl change. And then, need to

Proximity to the opposite sex is complicated. This relationship is born

Reckless and requires a lot of secrecy. In Iran, less so

Girls and boys are affected by this factor

There are many considerations in this regard

Fear of dishonesty and consideration of parents, and type of education

Girls and relative moral standards, and more

The type of communication is named. For whatever reason in Iran, this relationship

 Publicly, there is none.

Impact:

Any reason is possible. Girl or boy, inevitably, ton

To this kind of connection. Poverty and Wealth of Families, Factor

It is significant. And it is possible. A poor family girl

And the son of such families, give this kind of connection.

This connection, in Iran, about the marriage of wealthy older men

With moneyless girls, it looks great. Of course it is possible. One

The girl who suffered from a previous relationship, physical injury, fear

Honor, with a boy who doesn't care, either

Middle-aged man, get married. That won't last.

 Community norms about the need for intangibles

Girl, it is caused by problems and headaches

 There have been many divorces. In some areas, fathers

 Girl, it may be. Your child will inevitably have to marry

And another girl from her marriage age

Past or boy in the same situation, inevitably married

That they haven't liked before.

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Reflection of Love:

Many of us know love beyond love. And when a friend

Having transcends our imagination. We say relationships are romantic, or

So much for love. But it is not.

Love is a sublime state in the presence of some people. That rarely, opportunity

 Burroughs emerges, finds. Love is quality. That in its essence, cannot be

Friendship and closeness and joining will lead. A metal container, on a flame

Imagine. The wall is empty and the flame is lit. Every moment inside

 The container and the surroundings become hotter. The whole series, maybe

Express the quality of love to some extent. Now if some water (joint) to

Pour into the pan. It quickly evaporates. And the heat and thirst of the dish

It won't go away. So the fate of the lover, just burning in the fire of passion

It's his. And no meaning is enough to define the state of love.

In short, love expresses the relationship between two people, or the expectation of a relationship

Not between them. No love for the relationship, no love

 Eventually, she gets mad. So far, even something called mistress

He doesn't know either.

{In this case, talk a long time. Sorry. This office is over

Anecdote Remains}

Definition of Friendship:

There can be tension between two people. That put them together and

Dependent, hold on. This stretch by strings (feeling of friendship)

 It will happen.

 However, we can visualize. That delicate, vibrant and vibrant strands

 And moving, it came out of the heart of two people and covered the heart of the other side.

Each of these strings can stem from a natural need

 Also, the homogeneity of beliefs - or, the conditions of life

 Or, secretion of sex hormones, at the peak of activity, or, inevitably

 And misery or, fortune, with the need of the other side

Be it. It may be a mixture of two or more factors.

But the degree of friendship, and ultimately, the possession of the other side

(It has nothing to do with sex).

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Second factor

It was the opposite sex. In the old days, they didn't say the opposite sex.

Rather, they said woman, but I decide. The effect of the opposite sex on

Analyze relationships, of both sexes

To delve deeper into the issue, it is necessary to have two sexes, naturally

Consider. That is, the sex of the female and the male.

In the natural system, the traction is from the sex of matter. And we know that

 The pollen of the male flowers, how they wander. Until they find the flower stigma, and

 Just as an egg can kill sperm, on its own

Any female sex can also kill a male. to this

The process is called (negative shimotactism) and this is actually a property

It is the chemical of the female. Which attracts the male sex to itself.

Male sex is, to a large extent, a natural military submission. And it is not necessary

That too much material would make it difficult to absorb itself

They are attracted to the sex of the female. In this way, again by nature, sex

The male does things, more to the attention of the female

(In all nature), the appearance and power of the male or female

Beautiful dance moves or hangouts and the like are some of the things

That the male, in order to attract attention and ultimately, the submission of the female,

In the midst of human beings, in addition to natural actions

That said, (with a little change), having wealth and showing it and spending it

For women, too. It is here that we find out

 One of the reasons for the interest in wealth, in fact, is to attract attention

Woman, is. And actually getting the first factor (wealth), in this case,

 Due to the need to achieve the second factor

Social life, customs and tribal habits, and finally

The thinking of human beings and religion, and indeed of civilization, caused it. That kind and shape and

 The motivation for communication between the two sexes is to be enhanced.

 Compared to the simple relationship between other males and females, evolved and

 At the same time, the basics are, in essence, the same

Is the natural principle. Man has succeeded, with advanced technical thinking and life

And the formulation of social laws, and the development of morality, to a large extent, the appearance and

Change the overlay of the relationship between the sexes.

 I will try to continue with these changes and other parameters,

 In the relationship between man and woman and remembering the beauties of communication

 Human and the need to formulate appropriate laws

social life:

Humans are social, created. That, social life, causes

There are contacts between people. Including these calls can be from calls

Emotional, she recalled. In previous articles, about many relationships

I've mentioned (human, social). So it's just about emotional relationships

I'll pay.

Humans can be in love

Humans can love each other.

Humans can. In spite of having sex, they have no feelings for me.

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