Archives    آرشیو

Archives آرشیو

This blog is the archive of my old blog - I am recently publishing articles in English translation
Archives    آرشیو

Archives آرشیو

This blog is the archive of my old blog - I am recently publishing articles in English translation

Approach 11/2

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. That we have the art of ending and enduring end and the consciousness of ending,

We don't have it. You may have seen every year when the house shakes, how many items and

We throw away clothes, etc., while at least two

We have kept them in stock for years. Now it's more worn out

It has become less useful for anyone. I throw them away while

We knew from the beginning that these devices were no longer in use

We will not. Yes, we need the art of finishing and finishing

Let's learn and accept the tools and things we use

That they don't eat us anymore, in time by the deserving

Sometimes we may need to

Let's end a relationship. It's never too late to start.

Let's end many of our problems right now. And

They can also be used, packed, and stored for storage

Let's go.

Another symbol of agricultural culture that he himself

The legacy of the era of Arab ignorance. Not to mention the tribe and

Descendants, ancestors, fathers and grandfathers, please a little more

Let's think in this way and the habit we have. the door

The age of information flooding is so big in motion

Is. What a place to be dear to father and grandfather and so on

That we are safe with incomplete and manipulated information

We will not give up. Respect for the elders and the deceased, action

It's nice. But it is a means of pride and superiority

Giving will be ridiculous.

We need to pay more attention to our eating habits

Let's focus. Revenge of fatty, salty and heavy foods

What you eat today, you will give back after fifty years

A little simpler and a little more generous and forgiving, in food

And eating habits can be the root of many habits

Forgive the disgusting in us.

So addicted to cigarettes and drugs has become so common

I don't need to write about it either. These habits must

Leave or kill.

Individual habits such as overeating, jealousy, greed

Criticism of others, talkativeness, frustration, anger

Being, expecting, being cold with others, being self-centered, self-centered

Satisfaction - Proud of wealth and status. Disrespect to

Moral and social boundaries, self-righteousness at all times

Excessive weight and lack of speech, being shy, being shrewd

Being a conspirator.

All of these characteristics are probably part of our habits

We need to identify and treat them.

Treating individual and often hidden traits usually works

It's not easy, and because we have to do it ourselves

Let's diagnose and choose the type of treatment ourselves

Observe the progress of the treatment ourselves and the first summary and

The end is entirely up to us, so be careful

It is important to treat these hidden pains seriously

Approach 11/1

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Accustomed to heavy gifts in many cases and that

If for some reason we couldn't give the gift we wanted

Feel humiliated and even rewarded

We will bring it in the same language. Also, if someone gives a cheap gift

He gave it to us. Regardless of the art and beauty of the gift, it is eye-catching

Another, we look at him and immediately give him a gift

We compare ourselves and complain. And our imagination

That is, if the party respects us. A sign of this respect

Giving us expensive gifts. What a habit

He has severed ties and ended friendships

The next habit is something similar to the above. We are used to

We have done that if we go to a party. The host must

Serve us with a variety of heavy meals. and if

The host will serve us a simple meal. that

We even count the insults themselves, and in most cases

We cut ourselves off from that family

At such parties, we notice purity and intimacy

We will not be the hosts, and he himself is very much in favor of this

He feels inferior. All this is inappropriate.

And we need to get out of this habit as soon as possible

As a host, we can, depending on the economic situation

Guest, welcome him. And so on

Forgive our hospitality. Commuting

In order to create friendships and family care

If we turn this commute into a display of capabilities

Let's materialize and entertain our guests

Receive and respect. So you have to give up this habit

And let's reconsider the way we think.

We may be guests for a year, four or five nights

Come and stay the night. For this exception, note how much

We have dedicated the space of the house. Always worried about guests

We are sleeping at night. If the price difference of a house is proportional

The number of family members and the house we have now. Account

do. We can withdraw our guests from the bank interest rate

Let's sleep in the best hotels. That's exactly the concern for the future

It is rooted in agricultural culture. And of course with the way we think that

Getting used to it, accepting that we can have our guests at the hotel

It's not easy

However, we are always forced to end some issues and cases

Let's face it - we are almost unable to do anything according to our habits and traditions

Let's finish. And about the most inevitable thing to happen without exception

Everyone falls, be careful. We write on condolence cards

(Sudden death) This shows.

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Approach 11

If we study in ourselves. And look at yourself carefully

We may find out. What habits do we have?

Human life is a norm. Only in some

Bad habits, such as drug addiction, are noticed by others

They have become accustomed to it and condemn it. Lots of habits

We count the normal course of our lives. Like a habit

Eat lunch at noon and get used to the bed

Ourselves or drinking water between meals and dozens of hidden and overt habits

First of all, the consumption of any habit is in itself a bondage

And in some cases, if we behave against our habits

Let's face it. We cannot cope with this behavior. At least

We immerse ourselves and remain silent. And in part

We even protest. It is necessary to be sure

Be aware of your habits. That is possible in this case

Let's get to the level of self-awareness, but I mean self-awareness

is not. I mean, we know exactly what our habits are. Then

Finding out what habits we have (regardless of right

And incorrect) can be the origin of habits and how we

We have become accustomed to those habits, and we have accepted them

We usually start with the family and then us

We get a lot of habits from the community around us

Some habits, we insist on and practice

we achieve. And in repeating those habits, care and attention

We do. We need habits that we are subconsciously aware of

Let's get to know each other. In the next step, it's about family habits

Reach out to yourself and then to social habits and finally to

Optional habits. Now we need that amount

One of the habits that has cultural roots, especially culture

They are agriculture. Identify yourself and leave them

Let's take action. I have a few social habits caused by culture

I mean agriculture. If we want agricultural culture

We have to go through civilization and have to give up these habits

Are.

Approach 10/11

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One of the important factors in causing sadness and depression is loneliness

Recently, due to economic reasons, the age of marriage has increased and young people

They should have lived with their wives, now they are alone

They take. These young people are usually at their parents' house. But loneliness

He will not perish in the presence of his parents. They need a companion and

They have a companion. And satisfying sexual powers that are completely natural and

It is clear. And if this natural satisfaction is not achieved.

All kinds of troubles occur for young people. Young people can be strengthened

Your social relationships and being with friends and performing

Sports such as hiking and mountaineering are somewhat off-limits

To be left alone. Another factor of loneliness is knowledge

It is wise. Usually that knowledge leads to loneliness

LT is. That is not accompanied by awareness.

Some young people according to the knowledge they have accumulated

Or specialize. You must think he is in a situation

Excellent or at least have a normal situation.

But it is not. These young people are often young

Have been used to acquire knowledge. Most likely from

Bringing life skills and occasional pleasures has been negligible

Their inability to communicate and their inability to take advantage of

The opportunities of ordinary life make them lonely

Look at your past. They will realize that the goal is complete

They specialize and they are, according to this,

They have spent their whole lives and youth studying and studying

Perhaps some of them will continue to specialize

They study until they reach middle age and are passionate

Enthusiasm for life, fall. There are a lot of people around these specialists

They are not able to communicate with such specialists. And possible

Sometimes someone asks them about their specialty

And solve your problem. Members of the family for the educated

High levels are of great value, especially to women

Specialists have a special attachment to their parents. Now at

Consider what a blow to these people with the death of a parent

It only enters. It is necessary for those who dedicate their future

They do science and knowledge, and they are usually unmarried. Sure

To fit the mental, physical, social and communication needs

With our society, pay enough attention and live them. It's good

Know that science and knowledge are not able for you without knowledge.

Bring peace. Be aware that you are also a human being

All his needs, the existence of these needs, never under the influence of science and

Your knowledge is not included. Of course, it is possible with the help of science

And knowledge suppresses needs but they are not destroyed

The middle years will definitely make you needy.

Feel sorry for your knowledge.

Many professionals and scientists to hide

Their problems in this regard ... they resort to cases and issues

Incidentally, they may also be noticed by the community.

But this attention, and even more so, is able to remove the rust of loneliness

It is not from their heart. No higher pleasures and miracles than this

You don't have to hold your child's hand and walk with him

And while you are watching him, he is tall and small

look.

That I used negative sentences as needed

I'm sorry. Be happy and victorious

Approach 10/10

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Don't look for patient and sympathetic stones. Mental state and

The psyche of society is on the verge of real danger. Please

I'm relieved of my pain and grief and my personal failure

Or due to their painful thinking, to the disease of the skirt community

Let's not hit. In parties and gatherings, let's not leave happy people alone

Make them express their happiness. To

The smallest thing that does not grieve from the bottom of my heart and with

 Let's laugh out loud. If we have the talent to be happy

We have friendly and family gatherings, with courtesy

Sex and ethnicity, what we can do for happiness

Let's turn to others. Ignore emoticons and teasing

And if we face such reactions seriously

Immediately give us a phone number (Alki) and tell us

See a psychologist right away. In providing happiness

Don't be short. Make others happy with subtlety

Consider it a difficult task to measure and, of course, short

Please with any ethnicity and accent and nationality and physical shape

People, don't joke. If you have endured so far and

You didn't call me painless and sad. Of course, there are some of you

Introduce a small and, of course, valuable joy. And

What good is a web site if it simply "blends in" with everything else out there?

Introduce. Believe me if you are sad and frowning

It could solve problems, especially solutions

The future is right. The government did what you did

Laugh a lot, get drunk. Sorrows, failures,

Failures and in general all the factors that give birth

Grief is related to past events and rest assured

That by drowning in the past and exploring calamities, never

You can't find the way to a bright future. Look at tomorrow

do. Appreciate your small joys. Believe

That is the joy of reflecting the great spirit of human beings. injustice

And especially the expression of these things, only human beings, suffering and nervous

he does . From the slanderers, the ugly ones and the mourners, quickly

Stay away. You have a variety of reasons and excuses, to grieve

You are in control of yourself and others.

Try to see how many ways you know at least one

Make the person a little happy during the day. You must be a strong man

And be healthy and have the capacity, you will be able to do that

Do it. If you hate pain and sorrow and evil

So come and once a day out of sorrow and grief and ... for whatever reason

That exist. Give up. Be careful. Never

Happiness is not a sign of ignorance, and sorrow is a sign of wisdom

 It is not great to have a personality and help the society.

One of the important factors in causing sadness and depression is loneliness

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